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Old 01-04-2010, 11:03 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by dsaiuyerw View Post
got some important stuf!! but i need some advice please,,,,
my boyfriend and i had the relationship about 1 year,,and some few days after we went out with my friends to a movie,, and that day i refused his relationship!!and my friends used to tell don't end this relationship and so on,, i was sooo,,,weak on that moment,,and afterwards v started the relationship but i was happy when i meet him and have a physical interaction,,and now,,i dnt even like to talk to him either to meet him,,i don't knw what to do,, if u'l can,, please giv some more instructions to end this,,,
and of course,, the above instructions do helped me,, but i want some more confident!!if u'l tell me some more, i will b good on that,,!!
I'm not entirely sure that I understand your situation. It sounds as though you have been dating a man for a year and you currently dislike him. You would like some advice for how to end your relationship with a sense of finality.

Since you dislike seeing him and speaking with him, perhaps it would be difficult to explain your displeasure in person. There are a number of ways to break up with someone via text messaging or e-mail, but this is generally considered bad form. You may prefer to have a mutual friend inform him of your intentions, but this will cause undue stress on your friend. It really will be best overall to speak with your boyfriend face-to-face and explain that you are no longer interested. It will make it easier on you if you choose the location and time of this conversation. Choose someplace public, wherein you feel comfortable. If you choose instead to ignore him, never responding to his attempts at communication, he will eventually understand that you are through. Good luck with whatever course you take. I'm sure others will provide additional direction.
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