I am EXTREMELY disappointed that so many TFPers think the answer to this question has anything to do with the gender of the poster.
If one of your best friends of 10+ years who lives less than 15 seconds away from you has not entered your apartment in 6 months, you either are really mistaken about the nature and reciprocity of your relationship or you are a shitty host. Sorry.
On the other hand, you can ask your friend about it and talk like adult human beings. You know, because you are friends. Right? If not... well, don't cry over a friendship that you had in your head. 
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