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Originally Posted by Anonymous Member
I'm protective of my personal space & my home
If I invite you to my home, I feel like I'm opening up to you or revealing myself a bit.
I expect certain behavior from my friends.
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I wonder if this is manifesting itself in a way that makes people feel unwelcome. There are a few friend's houses that I am totally comfortable hanging out at, will raid the fridge without asking, and don't even knock when they're expecting me, and know that they will do the same at my house. I like those houses. Then there are also a few who give out a weird vibe, like my presence in their house is a tolerated intrusion. I don't hang out over there any longer than needed.
Also, you are definitely coming across as a needy bitch to me. Your story made sense when I thought you were a girl and were potentially interested in this guy, now that you're both straight dudes, I say sack up and don't let it bother you. If he didn't come watch 9 with you, all that means is he didn't want to come watch 9 with you. If someone was effectively nagging me to come hang out with them I think I'd be a little weirded out and probably avoid them.