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Old 12-18-2009, 07:18 PM   #10 (permalink)
Xerxys
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Location: My head.
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Originally Posted by Martian View Post
... Also worth considering is that someone who's shopping may not be interested in being chatted up. That isn't to say you can't make an effort, but if she seems eager to get on her way, just let it go.
Numbers game my friend. You can easily tell those who want to get out of the store right now and you can tell by those who lounge. I do so mainly by shopping at 1am. Usually I have the entire store to myself and any pretty stragglers will be hit on.

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Originally Posted by Zeraph View Post
... I guess I'm not very good at acting ignorant of things on the fly. Sounds silly I know, but its true. It just doesn't (and won't) cross my mind to ask her about something in the moment. My usual stick is to ask her something about herself, and then ask about the answer, but that initial question requires some observation first and these moments happen on the fly when I'm not prepared. Which I'm not at all good at.
Acting ignorant? Who says it's an act? I genuinely did not know how to make meatloaf until a month ago when I met R***** . This is merely your excuse to make an excuse to not be creative.

I will attempt a tough love approach ...

Zeraph, your dick hates you. You can't ignore the hate mail it sends you forever.
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