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sounds like you have a "rescuer" complex,
take it from someone who has one.
although you might care for her
you cannot solve her issues and all her problems
she is a big girl, and it is up to her to get herself out of it,
her own way...and if it hurts, so be it
for some, that's the only way they will learn.
just support, and be there for her...to listen, to talk
not to do or to preach.
when she needs it, she will ask.
I have this problem myself, thinking I can solve the woes of someone I care for.
Focus on yourself, and your own problems.
What happens, happens
Let it go.
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