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Originally Posted by Punk.of.Ages
Dude, you're already right on track here. Don't over-analyze it. Just let it happen.
Call her whenever. Just don't go leaving her creepy "Where are you? I've called like five times in the last ten minutes and you're still not answering!" messages and you should be cool.
Don't sweat it, man. This stuff comes naturally if you let it.
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As a woman, I can say THIS IS A GREAT ANSWER. If you do it right, you should never have to say "SO, you wanna be my girlfriend...?" One day, you'll find she already is.
You're doing everything right so far...just keep it up. Call her when you have 5 minutes and just ask her what's up; you don't have to have anything fascinating to say, and can let her carry the convo (women have this in the bag).
A guy-friend once jokingly told me that a man is
never sure he has a girl, regardless of hints or signs, until she says so point blank; in this case though, I think it's pretty safe to say you have her. Start finding opportunities for just the two of you to do things together; friends are a great buffer in the early stages, but can start to seem like they're running interference for you if she wants to be a lone and they're always around. Throw out a "you &me" opportunity, and if she takes you up on it, you're golden.
Congrats! You caught one!
