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Making Her My Girlfriend
Backstory:
So I've known this girl for a while, and out of the blue, she invited me to an event last weekend which I was unable to attend. She reached out again and asked me out to grab some coffee the following week, and we ended up spending about an hour together over a some coffee. We hugged afterward, and I went on with the rest of my day.
I didn't really think of it as a date, more of a friendly hang out, but, I really wasn't sure. Then this past weekend, we bumped into each other again and she was with her friends. Her friends were all looking at me and smiling, and it felt like they were thinking: "Oh, so this is the guy she's been talking about". They even made me take a picture with her, which was weird, but really made me suspect that she was indeed talking about me to her friends. I told her that my friends and I would be going to a club that night, and told her she should come with her friends too.
That night, she showed up, and we were both a little drunk. There was some ... intimate dancing, kissing, and hand holding. It was almost as if we were together, as a couple.
My Question:
So now I'm pretty sure she's interested in me and I want to take things further with her. We both go to the same school and I'm probably going to try to arrange study sessions with her when we're both on campus, but beyond that, I'm not really sure how to play things specifically. So that night at the club was last night. I don't know when I should call her again, or try to hang out with her. I don't want to be too clingy right away, but I don't want to be so distant that she thinks that I'm not interested.
Any specific suggestions on where to take things from here? Like when to call her again, when to try to hang out with her again? I'm probably over thinking all of this, but it'd be nice to hear from you all.
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