I wouldn't think you're shallow at all. I met someone off a dating website that didn't look anything nearly like their profile picture. And was very disappointed. It's not a secret why some people put up pictures of themselves on their profiles and not others. There has to be attraction in order to date someone, that's the bottom line. So, don't feel bad, but maybe you did move it a little too fast. It's okay, I've been there before too. Just say you want to be friends in a nice way and keep it at that. Good luck and keep searching, if you're ready, then the right person at the right time will present themselves. And the best way to meet people, from what I've heard, is through friends/social contacts. Not sure about online dating websites, but that's only been my personal experience with them.
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