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Old 11-23-2009, 11:23 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Online Dating and Me Being a Terrible, Terrible Person

So, a few weeks ago I realized that, while I have a great social life and great friends, I haven't met anyone I'd be interested in dating in a good year or so. So, I signed up for an online dating website. I was pleasantly surprised at the number of people on there, and after a while started chatting with a woman.

We got along great messaging each other, and eventually added each other on Facebook. That's where the problem starts. She looked cute on her dating profile, but her Facebook reveled she was... rather overweight.

It makes me feel like a terrible person, but that's a deal breaker for me. I've got nothing against fat people, I'm just generally not physically attracted to them. It sounds shallow, I know.

I don't know how to proceed. I don't want to just suddenly drop contact, especially when she has my phone number and Facebook. But I also don't want to lead her on. Being honest, I'm afraid, might hurt her, which I have no desire to do.

Bleh. I like real life dating better.
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Old 11-23-2009, 11:27 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Having preferences doesn't make you shallow.

Easy answer:
Don't do anything.

If she presses it:
"I'm just not into you that way."

If (unlikely) she demands to know why:
"You're not really my type."

Honest, no name calling. This is how mature people handle things like this.
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Old 11-23-2009, 11:39 PM   #3 (permalink)
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OP: Yeah, this is you not being a horrible person. Echo: Having preferences doesn't necessarily make you shallow, chief.

I don't feel bad when I walk away from girls that don't meet my needs. It's better to break it off fast than lead someone on.

Don't waste your time, their time, or involve any more emotion than necessary here. Just think: You're examining raw materials.

I've broken off dates with girls because they turned out to be obese, religious, Republican, and my favorite, a broke-nose gold digger.

Somebody might be beautiful on the inside, but that doesn't mean you have to put up with their unattractive outside.

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Bleh. I like real life dating better.
Define "real life." Turns out wherever you go... issues abound. You might think that picking up a little hottie at a bar will be easier, but you end up with one that has daddy issues or a kid at home. Use online dating as a powertool... you can contact many women quickly without having to waste anybody's time or money. The email format of many sites fosters frank, accelerated discussion. Use it to your advantage to find out who's up to your particular standards. It isn't wrong to ask for full body shot and I gotta tell ya: if you don't like those "BBW," beware those that don't post one in their profile.
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Old 11-24-2009, 12:00 AM   #4 (permalink)
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well the problem is, like 60% of the US is overweight, and then again i'd say that number is even higher amongst people who feel they need to resort to dating sites (hey i'm overweight and i've tried it)

ultimately it got me nowhere. I usually just break contact at the slightest warning sign, just because it's much easier than meeting them and enduring a whole night of being with someone who does nothing for you in that way.
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Old 11-24-2009, 12:12 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Keep talking to her if he's a nice person, but gently move from anything "girlfriendy". Let her down gently; that's human decency.

Either that, or swallow your pride and go on a real date - it may turn out that the reason you found her good to communicate with online is that as people you get on well, and maybe what this teaches is that your prejudice against the size of a girl is weaker than your desire for human connection.

Maybe today is the day you find out that curves rock!

/me would rather have a cuddly woman than a skin covered xylophone.
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Old 11-24-2009, 07:41 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Sounds to me like you exchanged personal info too quickly. I've made huge mistakes doing this, including meeting a few blindly without a photo exchange. Fact is, you need to do photo exchangeS. And get them on cam - not just the phone. I'm picky too. And if I'm not happy about one little thing, I'm not happy period, and I lose him as fast as I can.

Good luck .
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Old 11-24-2009, 07:58 AM   #7 (permalink)
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OP: Yeah, this is you not being a horrible person. Echo: Having preferences doesn't necessarily make you shallow, chief.

I don't feel bad when I walk away from girls that don't meet my needs. It's better to break it off fast than lead someone on.

Don't waste your time, their time, or involve any more emotion than necessary here. Just think: You're examining raw materials.

I've broken off dates with girls because they turned out to be obese, religious, Republican, and my favorite, a broke-nose gold digger.

Somebody might be beautiful on the inside, but that doesn't mean you have to put up with their unattractive outside.
this post is so full of QFT's and (TM)'s
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Old 11-24-2009, 10:15 AM   #8 (permalink)
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If you like her, take her on a date to the gym and hottub afterwards, or go for a bike ride or a walk. Get yourself in shape, while getting her in shape (if she's amenable). Dont tell her your doing it for her, just do it as an activity together. You know, a body can change for the better or worse (children, weight gain/loss, scarring, accidents, etc) at anytime in life, but an adult peresonality usually doesnt.
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Old 11-24-2009, 11:46 AM   #9 (permalink)
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"What I Learned from Dating 100 Men" - 1 - MSN Relationships - article

my sister sent that to me the other day... seems pretty applicable to this thread.
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Old 11-24-2009, 01:14 PM   #10 (permalink)
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I wouldn't date guys shorter than me, but that was my own insecurities. I never felt comfortable towering over a guy. However, I am going on a second date with a guy tonight who is 5 inches shorter than I. His height didn't bother me as much as I thought it would when I first met him. His personality must overshine it.

I can understand the overweight thing though. I wouldn't date someone who is overweight because they are unattractive, it's because they aren't choosing a healthy lifestyle. I need an active person in my life to keep me active.

Best of luck with your dating. It's rough.
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Old 11-24-2009, 01:34 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Just because you don't like girls of a certain body type doesn't make you a bad person.

If you went out of your way to make fun of overweight people, or threw pies at them and yelled "eat more fatty"...then yes.

Don't knock it till you've tried it though..thick girls are a lot of fun.
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Old 11-24-2009, 01:34 PM   #12 (permalink)
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As an aside, it's quite possible to be skinny and sedentary, or heavier and active.

I'm avoiding the word overweight because opinions seem to vary on what qualifies for that.

That is all.

EDIT -- It's noteworthy that we also don't know how overweight this girl is, really. I mean, are we talking Hollywood Kate Winslet Is Fat overweight, or Can't Fit Through Doorways Has Her Own TLC Special overweight?

There's a spectrum. A person can be healthy and 'overweight,' although I'd argue that anyone who is healthy is by definition not.

It's a tricky issue. Regardless, I stand by my prior post; if she's not to your taste, move on. No sense in wasting each others' time.
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Old 11-24-2009, 10:45 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I don't see how liking thin is a prejudice against fat, anymore than liking fat is a prejudice against thin. No one should have to apologize for their tastes just to be PC. We all have friends that are not our type, and we don't have to start conversations with "I'm sorry I don't want to sleep with you..." If her body doesn't do it for you, it's no different than if her mind, personality, bank account, or whatever doesn't. Healthy or not. If we didn't have personal tastes, we wouldn't have the variety of choices we have in food, entertainment, careers, etc. Would all be eating whatever was in front of us, watching whatever is on tv (and enjoying it), fucking every man, woman, child, dog, that came across our path and so on. I don't know why this topic keeps coming up, and usually with the OP saying "I'm horrible because I don't want to sleep with someone who doesn't turn me on because he/she's "x", and I don't like "x" but PC society says I'm shallow if I don't do it anyway." Thank God we have differences in taste, it helps spread the love around!

As for online dating, as with anything on the web, you have to be careful. We aren't all millionaires from helping some poor Nigerian dictator's family, are we? Apply the same level of skepticism (or trust) that you do to anything else on the web. If someone over- or under-represents themselves, it's not your problem. Find the right person, date, marry, have kids, enjoy life with the perfect person, die. How can you go wrong? Just don't apologize for what you like.
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Old 11-24-2009, 10:51 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Incidentally, one of my best friends is a lady who I never even considered playing hide the love sausage with. Even when we were both single and lonely, it was mutually understood without a word being said that such things were not to happen between us.

I can't speak for her, but I know my reason -- she's 5'11", and at the time weighed 115 lbs. There's no denying she's a pretty girl, but I'd be afraid to get rough with someone like that, lest they snap like a twig.

The lover I ended up with isn't fat, but she's not a twig either. And that's the way I like it.

(The friend, by the way, ended up happily monogamous with a guy who is 6'7"; they now have a child together and are trying for another.)

I don't believe you can have a satisfying sexual relationship with someone you're not attracted to. You can have a relationship of some form or another; if you get along so well with this gal maybe she's destined to become a great friend. You can seek mutual comfort, although I prefer not to do such things. But to have that proper relationship, with real sex and intimacy, the two participants have to have physical chemistry as well as emotional.

So, for the third time: Don't waste your time and hers out of some misguided idea that you have to be politically correct. It's not fair to either of you.

Regarding online dating, it's a well-known fact that nothing on the internet is true. Caveat Emptor applies.
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Old 11-24-2009, 10:55 PM   #15 (permalink)
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That's what I'm talking about!
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Old 11-24-2009, 10:57 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Martian, people pay a hundred dollars an hour for less advice than you give.

Ever thought about going into counseling?
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Old 11-25-2009, 12:59 AM   #17 (permalink)
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I wouldn't think you're shallow at all. I met someone off a dating website that didn't look anything nearly like their profile picture. And was very disappointed. It's not a secret why some people put up pictures of themselves on their profiles and not others. There has to be attraction in order to date someone, that's the bottom line. So, don't feel bad, but maybe you did move it a little too fast. It's okay, I've been there before too. Just say you want to be friends in a nice way and keep it at that. Good luck and keep searching, if you're ready, then the right person at the right time will present themselves. And the best way to meet people, from what I've heard, is through friends/social contacts. Not sure about online dating websites, but that's only been my personal experience with them.
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Old 11-25-2009, 02:51 AM   #18 (permalink)
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Some prefer only skinny women. Some hate brunettes. Some prefer tall men. Some are only after a large wiener. I'm only interested in white men. Black men don't do a thing for me. We all have our preferences. Nothing wrong with that.
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Old 11-25-2009, 05:28 AM   #19 (permalink)
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If you don't like her well enough to overlook her size, then you don't like her well enough.
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Old 11-25-2009, 05:32 AM   #20 (permalink)
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I'm only interested in white men.
Damn, I'm sort of peach coloured.



But you're right - we all have preferences.

The one thing that can be said about people's weight is that most people do have control over their weight. You can't grow taller, or change your skin colour or your ethnicity, but most people who are 20 or 30 pounds over can drop it if they want - so it's one thing that doesn't have to be a deal breaker.
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Old 11-25-2009, 09:04 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Some are only after a large wiener.
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Old 11-25-2009, 09:11 AM   #22 (permalink)
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if they want
That's the deal breaker right there.
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Old 11-25-2009, 09:32 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Martian, people pay a hundred dollars an hour for less advice than you give.

Ever thought about going into counseling?
Counseling? Pfft. Do you know how much paperwork is involved with that?

But if anyone wants to send me $100, I will gladly accept.

It's true that people can lose (and gain) weight, but that's not the sort of decision that should be made to please someone else. Going into a relationship expecting that you can change the things you don't like about your partner is a fool's game.
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Old 11-25-2009, 09:40 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Going into a relationship expecting that you can change the things you don't like about your partner is a fool's game.
Oh, this deserves its own thread.
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Old 12-02-2009, 04:26 AM   #25 (permalink)
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This happened to me before sorta. I met a guy online.. we talked and flirted and called eachother. We met and had sex and well.. his dick wasn't to my liking. Not just size-wise.. but the general feeling of it in me. I continued to talk with him, but when he wanted to become more intimate, I had to tell him that I just didn't feel a connection like I had before. I didn't mention his dick, of course.

Just continue talking with the woman but don't lead her on (don't flirt). If she questions why, just say you met another person or realized that she was better as a friend or something. If she asks if it's because she's fat, you can either tell her the truth in a nice way or lie and say, "You are big, but I don't care about things like that. I've dated big beautiful women before. It's just I don't feel such an intimate kind of compatibility."

I'm a big girl.. and honestly.. if a man doesn't want to date me because of my size, I don't mind.. I just don't want to end up feeling like a complete fool. So, def don't lead her on.
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Old 12-02-2009, 03:13 PM   #26 (permalink)
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Some prefer only skinny women. Some hate brunettes. Some prefer tall men. Some are only after a large wiener. I'm only interested in white men. Black men don't do a thing for me. We all have our preferences. Nothing wrong with that.
White? As in pale? As in like attract like?
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Old 12-05-2009, 02:01 PM   #27 (permalink)
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Some prefer only skinny women. Some hate brunettes. Some prefer tall men. Some are only after a large wiener. I'm only interested in white men. Black men don't do a thing for me. We all have our preferences. Nothing wrong with that.
I dunno. Skin color is a pretty bad preference to be picky about. Life it to short for that.
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Old 12-05-2009, 02:14 PM   #28 (permalink)
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Got a thing for fat chicks?

Potato, potahto.
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Old 12-05-2009, 02:20 PM   #29 (permalink)
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Nope, just cute skinny chicks every color of the rainbow.
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Old 12-05-2009, 02:28 PM   #30 (permalink)
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You disgust me.

Really, it's all personal preference. That's it.

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wait - is there a Sammy Sosa joke in here somewhere?
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Old 12-05-2009, 03:26 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Somebody said black.
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I think fat girls rock and skinny chicks are not for me.

Am I a better person for this? Probably not.

You think skinny chicks rock and fat girls are not for you.

Does this make you a worse person? Probably not.
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Old 12-06-2009, 02:51 PM   #32 (permalink)
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IF the weight is the only issue, I would try to work around it. Weight can be lost. IF she mentally stimulates you, shares similar goals and ideas (which is far more important than looks) and in every way except weight makes you happy, stay with her.

Maybe she is trying to lose it, maybe she put it on recently (the Nuvo Ring, I know can put massive weight on fast)... you may look for an opportunity and try to talk about it. Go on a diet together. Work through it.

Fat people can lose weight and come out looking really good. You may end up dating someone who is "perfect" and into the relationship she gains all kinds of weight.

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. Going into a relationship expecting that you can change the things you don't like about your partner is a fool's game.
You can't change but you can be the stimulus and inspirational help to their change.

Now, if you try to change them without their truly wanting it, it becomes a fool's game and resentments build. The change has to be truly what that person wants.
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Old 12-06-2009, 06:26 PM   #33 (permalink)
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I wouldn't say you're shallow either, I think we all have things we find attractive/unattractive and tend to seek out or date people based on those preferences....pretty normal.

Actually I used to have really high standards when I was younger, the problem was I rarely had a fulfilling relationship and most were very short lived. In the last few years I've found that dating women I got along/had fun with was just simply more fulfilling, I rarely got bored, never cheated and genuinely looked forward to spending time with her. Anyway why not give it a chance with a date or two? You might surprise yourself and find you've met somebody pretty special, if not break it off. Even if the relationship doesn't work you might make a good friend.

Good luck! I certainly know that handling the situation is much easier said then done.
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IF the weight is the only issue, I would try to work around it. Weight can be lost. IF she mentally stimulates you, shares similar goals and ideas (which is far more important than looks) and in every way except weight makes you happy, stay with her.

Maybe she is trying to lose it, maybe she put it on recently (the Nuvo Ring, I know can put massive weight on fast)... you may look for an opportunity and try to talk about it. Go on a diet together. Work through it.

Fat people can lose weight and come out looking really good. You may end up dating someone who is "perfect" and into the relationship she gains all kinds of weight.

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You can't change but you can be the stimulus and inspirational help to their change.

Now, if you try to change them without their truly wanting it, it becomes a fool's game and resentments build. The change has to be truly what that person wants.
Fool's game indeed. Women would save themselves a lot of stress if they didn't go after assholes and douchebags expecting to change them and chose their mates more wisely. On a side note that's why I don't date smokers either. I'll be friends with them but have no desire to date them. I've tried dating a few expecting to change get them to stop smoking and never works out.
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