If she asks you to take things slowly, and you don't, then a breakup will likely ensue.
The emotions behind a relationship can be overwhelming. Especially for women. When you're asked to slow down, it's a great idea to focus on getting to know each other better - plan dates that are fun and engaging, that allow you to explore your interests in a public venue. Visiting museums, shopping, going to see an opera or a play, outdoor activities like hiking, kyaking or skiiing... There are plenty of ways to get to know a person, to test the ground and see if you're truly compatable without spending time in the bedroom.
A phrase that usually signals the end of a relationship? "I need space."
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