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Grey2000 · 11-16-2009, 06:12 AM

So I've been going out for 3 months now with a girl who's beautiful, fun and intelligent. Yesterday she told me she wanted to 'take things slowly' - every time this has happened in the past its been not long after that a breakup has happened.

I'm thinking that perhaps this is on the cards again, and she's just finding a polite way to create the breathing room to end things.

I'm interested in what the ladies have to say - has 'taking it slowly' ever resulted in a good relationship, or is it just girl-code, one of the many things us dumbass guys don't really pick up on.

I'm not looking for an opinion on what it might mean in my particular case -for that you'd have to know too many intricacies of the relationship dynamic. Just interested in your experiences - guys too.

11-16-2009, 06:12 AM	#1 (permalink)
Grey2000 Upright Location: Cape Town, South Africa	Lets take things slowly...kiss of death ? So I've been going out for 3 months now with a girl who's beautiful, fun and intelligent. Yesterday she told me she wanted to 'take things slowly' - every time this has happened in the past its been not long after that a breakup has happened. I'm thinking that perhaps this is on the cards again, and she's just finding a polite way to create the breathing room to end things. I'm interested in what the ladies have to say - has 'taking it slowly' ever resulted in a good relationship, or is it just girl-code, one of the many things us dumbass guys don't really pick up on. I'm not looking for an opinion on what it might mean in my particular case -for that you'd have to know too many intricacies of the relationship dynamic. Just interested in your experiences - guys too.