I tend to give people either the benefit of the doubt or no benefit at all. It usually bites me in the ass either way. I have no idea what the answer is.
Woods - you're lucky you can speak up w/ your family. I find my family is the worst to judge, so I have learned to keep my trap shut there.
It seems like I WANT to give people the benefit of the doubt, because I really miss having close friends, but whenever I do, I regret it.
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