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I am not going to at this point in our relationship, if ever, to experiment w/women to make our relationship more unstable than it is in my mind. It is just a bad idea at this point and any other in a monogomous relationship. I agree with all of you who advised this. And we see eachother about one night/half a day in a one-week time span and that's actually pretty good since he is so busy. We don't live together obviously. And in between all of that, we chat constantly online or phone, so I know he loves me and is there for me. And that's with him being so busy. I did leave that out before, and I think it's a valid point. Opinions on that?
Sometimes though, he likes to go play poker and hang out with his friends, and I am fine with that, but on many occasions he's said he is going to come to and be with me, and he doesn't show up on time or sometimes, a couple times, he didn't. He always has vaid reasons for this and calls and lets me know, but still, it does hurt and makes me think for the next time, if he is going to show up when he says he is going to. Thoughts on this as well?
I feel like it's going to take a lot of effort on both of our parts, especially to patch up the damage that's been done already, but I will say that when we are together, it's very affectionate and loving from both of us, and he is wonderful to and with me in those moments. I treasure that about him and us. Thank you for reading and advising.
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