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You have to relax and not worry so much. All of this will end up pushing him away. I am in a similar situation, my boyfriend is 24 and I am 31. We have been together for over 2 years, and though it is not always perfect, we seem to have what it takes to make it. I learned the age difference only matters if you are in two different places and have different goals, but most of all if you think there is a problem, you will make it true.
Love and patience can conquer all things. Step back and ask yourself if this needs to be worried about, do you need to say anything. Chances are if you wait, the answer will come on it's own, instead of prying it out of him or needlessly worrying about it. You can create more problems than you realize by being clingy and needy, this only serves to drive you further apart.
Hope that helps. I will be back to write more later as I think of it.
Good luck!
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