taurus

Hi, I'm 26. I was married for five years with the only guy I ever had sex with. I'm new here and have this question on my mind. I'm seperated since July and living 3,000 miles apart from my partner. I'm in a small community of 10,000 people. When you talk with someone, you hear two days later that you're dating them. When you're not! So my dilema is this. I don't want my business the talk of the town and have been discretely seeing this black guy. All's fine and we're good friends too. The sex is the best I've ever had. He's just a really nice guy and we've been friends with benefits for the past 7 or so weeks. He was away for a week and I met another guy and ended up having sex and sleeping over at his a couple of times. He has the most beautiful house/villa! Do I carry on casually seeing them both (without letting them know)? It's such a small place and I was wondering if other women on this forum had juggled men behind closed doors?

I feel I should pick one of them, but then if I were morally strong, I'd tell them both off (I'm still legally married).