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Originally Posted by dlish
from someone who's allowed multiple wives...
no its not possible to have the same feelings for multiple people.
i'll just mention that i know someone who has two wives, and im certain that he has feelings for one more than the other.
sure you can fall in love with more than one person at a time, but thats not love. love is an all encompassing feeling of helpless belonging that no one can fill except the person for which it is intended. i cant see how that can be two people at any one time.
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Having been in polyamorous relationships, I would NOT say that one partner is loved any less than the other in a healthy polyamorous relationship, however there almost always are differences in how that love is expressed. Different people have different needs. Sometimes one partner takes priority over another at a given time based on circumstances.