I find that for me, loving people takes work. I make the choice to love them, and this manifests itself in relationships and spending time and energy on these people. When I am loving someone, I find I generally have less time and overall desire to cultivate loving other individuals to the same degree. Not to say it couldn't be done, but it would take exceptional individuals in my eyes to continue on both roads to the same degree.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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