I'm sure it's possible, although, fortunately it's never happened to me (excluding my children, family, and friends...but I know you're asking about a different kind of love here). Life is complicated enough without trying to balance the emotional needs of more than one lover.
Monogamy is SO important to me. I've been cheated on...it was shattering for me, but I hung on to that relationship for many years, without ever really trusting him again. I love being intimate, in every way, with my partner. I give him all I can, but if it's not enough for him, then he needs to move on. I can guarantee my lover will be my one and only and expect the same in return. It's just what works for me.
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