It's not the "norm" because I think most people won't allow it to be.
Yes, it is very possible to be "in love" with more than one as I have been for quite a while. Love is not one thing or one defining emotion, it's a mixture of feelings, actions and interactions brought together in a harmonious circle. And just as everyone is different, the feeling of loving others will be as well, but no less important one person to the next.
I often explain it as : You have more than one child, you don't love one at a time, why should it be any different with others in your life? Your heart doesn't divide, it grows.
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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