Assuming the letter is real, they have a bigger problem than the size of his equipment. She was totally oblivious to how he might feel about her revelations, and she reacted totally improperly when told it bothered him. That to me is the bigger issue.
She was saying something positive about him? Possibly, although some women might disagree (I hope, for my sake). But there are positive things that people just don't want to discuss in public, even with friends. Ask your friends how much money they gave to charity last year. It's definitely a positive thing, regardless of the amount. Bet they won't want to say. This is somewhat analogous... no matter how positive she feels she's being, since it's about him, it's how HE feels about the topic that makes it appropriate or not.
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