Married 1 - Divorced 1
I can see both sides to this. I can see how Crompsin could believe that the more you do it, the less it means. I can also see that you learn with every experience, and maybe the next time, it will be right. Ultimately, it comes down to the two people in the relationship and how they view marriage.
Personally, I would get married again. I like the idea of marriage. I want a life partner. But I do agree you have to like the one you're with. When you lose all respect for your partner, all bets are off. At least they were for me. I might have tried to hang in there, but he knew my feelings had changed and packed up and left w/o even giving me notice. So I took it as a blessing in disguise. If he was willing to walk away so easily, then I knew I was better off on my own. I know not all men would do that, so I still have faith in the process.
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