^^ Huh? I just saw this. Dude, no. I perhaps put way too much stock into money personally and in my earlier post I was trying to approach in a very solution based kind of way. From a point of view that favored not breaking up the relationship. I wasn't questioning your self esteem or anyone else's.
That said I'm right about the self worth issues. Think about it man. $20,000 in debt. These all don't come from buying 40 laptops or amplifiers. How much time have you spent on the computer searching for general information, keeping you updated and entertained? That's your money back right there. Your guitar and amplifier, are you going to buy 20 of them? Did you buy your laptop with a credit card? What about the latest trend in jeans, clothes, shoes, ... trivial shit like that. What about buying that military grade processor and motherboard when you have no foreseeable career in IT?
People that have this kind of behavior ARE irresponsible.
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Originally Posted by Punk.of.Ages
... I just understand that money comes and money goes, and in the end it doesn't really mean shit. ...
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Bullshit. I'm only 21 years old and I have more money than many my age simply from working. I can survive without handouts and feeling resentful to the ones who treat me like shit just because they feed and shelter me. Maybe that is the "deep" part of love, but fuck that bullshit if that's the price I have to pay for love.
I know that money makes me happier than anyone else ever has my whole life. I hereby VEHEMENTLY disagree. Love makes you miserable, dependability doesn't.