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Originally Posted by Nurse Betty
I'm the dominant. He likes to be told what to do, but sometimes I want to be persued. I would like to feel wanted and desired. For once I want to be dominated, or romanced or made to feel special. I just don't know if he has it in him  |
Yeah, that's the thing with D/s sex. The submissive is in total control, because they set the limits, the sit back and have things done to them, and they get to say when it's over. It seems like the dom is in charge, but s/he's totally not.
Try denying him what he wants next time. That'll drive him REALLY nuts.