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My parents were both married before they married each other, and they've been married for 27 years now. My dad's first marriage lasted 9 years before he divorced, mostly due to philosophical differences (she didn't want kids). My mom went through two husbands; the first died and the second was an abusive asshole. With her track record, my mom was scared shitless to marry my dad, but she gambled anyway.
So yes, subsequent marriages can work. It's really what Bill said--you have to like the person to get through it. My parents aren't only in love with each other, but they LIKE each other. They're best friends. I've seen them go through some really shitty times together, but they've always come out the other side stronger for it because at the end of the day, no matter what happens, they still care about the other person.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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