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I married the girl I'd dated since 17, and stayed with her until I was 33. We broke up because she cheated on me, and I kerbed her.
I re-married after my divorce.
I viewed the failure of my first marriage as caused by her failure to follow the promise we made to each other to be faithful.
My second wife had never married before.
Since our divorce, my ex-wife has twice cheated on her boyfriends.
I guess my message is, if your marriage ended because you broke the rules the chances are all of your relationships will fuck up. If your marriages both ended because of your partner's infidelities, then maybe the two of you can each make a marriage work if you have the right partner.
There are too many variables for there to be a hard and fast rule, but statistics indicate that second marriages fail MORE often than first marriages, on average.
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Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air,
And deep beneath the rolling waves,
In labyrinths of Coral Caves,
The Echo of a distant time
Comes willowing across the sand;
And everthing is Green and Submarine
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