neveragain

So me and the bf have just recently gone through shitty divorces. We have discussed marriage of our own, but have voiced concern about how we screwed up our first ones, and how we feel about marriage again. I am all for it, I learned first time around what I don't want to happen again. He on the other hand is still very nervous. So I guess my reasoning for this post is to ask the divorced and remarried ppl on here, how they feel about 2nd,3rd or even 4th marriages. Do/did you feel that you could love again, or that you'd screw up, or just the fear of reliving something that was so diffucult. Really just wanting opinions on this and how others felt after their divorce, and if remarried how long after did it take you to build the trust to marry again.