There is a time for oral and a time for penetration. I don't have a preference, it just depends on my mood, since I love both!
I've never had any anal tongue action so I couldn't say.
I think in a healthy relationship sex should occur as often as both partners want it. I don't know about putting a number on it. It's nice if you can get it every day, obviously!
By the way, it is customary for the OP to give their own take on the question they put forward