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It sounds like there are two distinct *camps* on the affair/ ending the marriage question.
One opinion is, you took vows, you have children, you need to put your *feelings* on the back burner and hang in. It might get better it might not, but regardless, you owe your kids the effort.
Opinion two seems to be saying, if you are unhappy, cut your losses & get out.
It seems obvious that our opinions here are colored by our experience. We've got plenty of divorce *survivors* - both the adults and children (who are now adults) that were involved.
Everyone's experience & opinion is valid. No one's is better than the other's.
Babaloo and his family have some rough road ahead. No one is going to come out perfectly unscathed. He was brave to share his dilemma here and I wish him & his family the best.
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