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Originally Posted by Anonymous Member
As I was reading this, I couldn't help but feel this rising, I guess, anger at the people who cheat. Even worse were the people who cheated but kind of "got away with it" in the sense that they find a new partner while already in another relationship.
I think the anger was fueled by a mixture of betrayal, and that no justice was served. Even worse, were the friends who you would think would express disapproval at the cheater just remained neutral. Kind of a "not my problem thing."
My question to you fellow members is this: Why do people NOT express more disapproval at people who cheat?
but the lack of response towards cheaters, in my experience, has made me somewhat surprised.
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Unless you are the person who is being cheated on, your anger is misplaced.
It's no ones business how someone else conducts their lives.
I would question why SHOULD people express disapproval at people who cheat. Who made us the boss of humanity or the morality police?
No one has the right to stick their nose into someone else's life, judge them by their actions and tell them they are wrong, not behaving correctly, should be doing this or that.
While it probably isn't a good idea, won't end well or a multitude of other things, it still is no one's business except the people directly involved.