I can't answer for everyone but I think the response to the cheater is dependent upon the persons relationship and their morale beliefs. While true friends might stick up for the cheater as they are in pursuit of happiness and they want their friend to be happy. Others will admonish them for the hurt and betrayal that they have caused. Having been the one cheated on I can say that most of our friends are pulling away from her. Now our circle is family based and they believe in the sanctity of marriage. I have even asked some of them to not shut her out because whether the other guy was there or not we were probably headed towards divorce.
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