I think because cheating is an offense (yes, no longer a crime) in which the parameters of guilt and punishment are largely dictated by the persons actually involved - partners, and in some cases, any children involved in the resulting fallout. And rightfully so. I don't think cheating necessarily indicates a personality characteristic that need be judged by others, although it can be.
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