I heard someone say something about cheating years ago that I agree with still. If you cheat one time and honestly feel bad about it/regret doing, etc. and don't ever cheat again, you shouldn't tell the other person. All you're doing is trying to alleviate your guilt (which you should feel guilty) and it ends up hurting the other person. If you plan on cheating again, or end up cheating again, obviously something is wrong with the relationship and the other person does deserve to know.
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