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Originally Posted by ZombieSquirrel
I disagree entirely. This is not a good foundation on which to build a relationship. He has a right to know and it would selfish to deny him that. There's no possible way she can vow not to do this again unless she comes clean.
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Good! If we all thought the same the world would be boring boring boring.
From her point of view, I think it's a great foundation for this relationship. Not many people are faced with losing someone they love and given a second chance. This situation can give the individual greater appreciation for what they have, and maybe they will be less likely to take the other person for granted or become complacent in the relationship.
I don't feel he has a right to know. Why do you feel he does?
How does her coming clean contribute to her ability to vow, and succeed, in never doing anything like this again? In other words how does him having knowledge help her?
I'm interested in your thoughts.