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Originally Posted by Halanna
No, don't tell him.
Don't compound this mistake by making two.
Not only will it hurt him, it will change his perception of you. He may forgive you, but his perception of you is forever altered.
Telling him to alleviate your guilt is double selfish, the cheating act being the first.
If you are seriously contrite, vow to yourself never to do anything like this to him again, learn your personal lesson and move on.
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I disagree entirely. This is not a good foundation on which to build a relationship. He has a right to know and it would selfish to deny him that. There's no possible way she can vow not to do this again unless she comes clean.