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Old 08-24-2009, 12:03 PM   #29 (permalink)
Martian
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Originally Posted by Crompsin View Post
This worries me extensively.
Honestly, me too. Over a year in now and hardly so much as a squabble. It's unnatural.

But we also have wild monkey sex regularly too. The kind that causes neighbours to bang on the walls. So I think we're probably okay.

To the OP: Way to Man Up. Don't assume it's going to go Horribly Wrong, though -- the fact that she mentioned it indicates that she's thinking about it, which is a point in your favour.

More generally, This Is Not A Difficult Concept.

You like girl. You want to have the aforementioned monkey sex with girl. Or maybe you want rainbows and puppies -- some people are strange like that. Anyway, you're certain/uncertain if girl shares these feelings.

You ask. You find out that girl does/does not share these feelings.

You have wild monkey sex/move on with your life.

If it does turn out in your favour, though, remember that the key to office romance is this: No Wild Monkey Sex at the office.
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