One thing I've learned is that often men are attracted to a woman's self confidance. If she thinks she's pretty/hot/whatever then she's going to act differently. I'm NOT a perfect bod. Had a kid and a c-section doesn't help either. But as long as I feel healthy and feel good about myself Hubby seems to love it. I agree you should talk to him about it. Communication never hurts. But don't put yourself down - You've made a accomplishment to stick with dieting and excercise. Now all you need is that boost of confidence and you'll knock 'em dead.
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