If you make friends with her and flirt a little, she will make clear of her own accord that she is not single, if that's the case. She'll slip it into conversation. "I went to the movies with my boyfriend last week and saw that movie (in reference to a movie you're commenting on that you saw)". Committed girls make it clear early on.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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