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Originally Posted by Lubeboy
I was bored recently and decided to see how my old ex-gfs from years were doing. Maybe it's just me but none of them have gone onto anything worthwhile. Most of them are with deadbeat loser BFs/Husbands. They haven't haven't done much since. They all had a lot of potential too. Is this usually the case for a lot of people? I don't want to sound like I'm better than them, but maybe breaking up with them was a good thing.
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I could say the exact opposite about most of my ex-girlfriends. They all seem to be successful in life and relationships as far as I know. You have to think about what qualities in a partner they are attracted to. What, in you, did they find attractive? Why did the relationships fail? Was it because you weren't what they wanted (and vice versa?).
Possibly the reason they broke up with you (or you with them) is that they are attracted to deadbeat losers (ie. guys they could fix maybe? or guys that they could use as an excuse for their own behavior?) ...