The Ugly Truth
This movie got me thinking, about one line in particular.
"if you aren't interested in having sex with yourself, why do you expect a guy to be interested?"
I wonder how much influence this really has.
I enjoy sex immensely. With anyone who has had a conversation with me that has gotten around to sex, you will find I'm quite frank about my view without necessarily revealing each and every single detail about my sex life. But I feel there's no secrets.
I enjoy learning my own body through masturbation. I immensely enjoy learning about my partner's enjoyments and improving my skills to the point where their eyes roll back into their heads. While I may not have instant sex appeal with the average male or female walking by, those who engage me in conversation about the subject find an excited and willing participant. These are often the same people who've come back to say that a sexual encounter with them and me would be a fun experience.
What do you guys think? Does your perception of sex and your role in your own sexual enjoyment change the dynamic of your sexual interactions?
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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