I watched the video that Little_Tippler posted in the "Found on the Web" forum,
(link)and one part of it stood out to me:
Mary Roach seemed interested in people that can orgasm without genital contact.
I have been able to orgasm without touching my vulva for about as long as I've been having sex. If I'm already aroused, then simple things can make me come without issue. In the past (and likely, in the future) I have orgasmed from cold objects being pressed against my back, my shoulders being bitten, my arms being stroked softly, many many times from nipple play, from having my toes licked, from being pinched, and a couple of times just because I was told to.
I really don't think that it's that unusual, but I may be wrong.
Even Mr. Cohen agrees:
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"All parts of the body are erotogenic. Assholes can be trained with whips and kisses, that's elementary. Pricks and cunts have become monstrous! Down with genital imperialism! All flesh can come! Don't you see what we have lost? Why we have abdicated so much pleasure to that which lives in our underwear? Orgasms in the shoulder! Knees going off like firecrackers! Hair in motion! And not only caresses leading us into the nourishing anonymity of the climax, not only sucking and wet tubes, but wind and conversation and a a beautiful pair of gloves, fingers blushing! Lost! Lost!
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I do understand this is much harder for men, since ejaculation is such a major part of orgasm for them. Could you bring yourself to that climactic point without reaching ejaculation? Have you ever gone the whole way without being touched in supposedly "sexual" regions?
Can you come without your genitals being touched? Can your partner? Would you want to if you could? Would you be willing to try?