Originally Posted by genuinegirly

I'm honestly a bit creeped out when a guy says hi and starts talking to me, seemingly out of nowhere. Even more creepy if he starts talking about what I'm looking at, trying to get to know me - I would likely be wondering how long he has been watching me and if he would likely try to follow me if I politely stepped away from the conversation.

So, my advice: When you see a woman who appears single, that you'd like to get to know, and you have no real reason to talk to her - DON'T. Leave her be. Instead, join a club, take a class, or volunteer somewhere you think you'll run into women with your same interests. Then feel free to get to know them in a comfortable setting before you ask them out.