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Originally Posted by genuinegirly
I'm honestly a bit creeped out when a guy says hi and starts talking to me, seemingly out of nowhere. Even more creepy if he starts talking about what I'm looking at, trying to get to know me - I would likely be wondering how long he has been watching me and if he would likely try to follow me if I politely stepped away from the conversation.
So, my advice: When you see a woman who appears single, that you'd like to get to know, and you have no real reason to talk to her - DON'T. Leave her be. Instead, join a club, take a class, or volunteer somewhere you think you'll run into women with your same interests. Then feel free to get to know them in a comfortable setting before you ask them out.
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I'm thinking this depends on what region you're in. Go to BC (e.g. Vancouver) for a while, and you'll notice that strangers will up and talk to you without any formal introductions. It's not uncommon to see spontaneous conversations pop up in virtually any situation. It happens here in Toronto too, but on a lesser scale. I hear the Maritimes is known for this too.
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