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Originally Posted by Anonymous Member
then I stuck it in her condomless and started doing her. But.... It's almost as if I didn't feel anything...
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Break this habit NOW while you still can. It is the perfect way to end up with an unwanted pregnancy. No P in V without C unless she is on BC, and even then be careful of STD (sesame street should do this song)...unless she is on BC, and clean, and you are both monogamous.
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I'm not big down there, about 5.5" (  ) and average or tiny bit less girth, which thankfully she accepts and "says" it doesn't matter, and she felt tight anyways;
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It doesn't matter, no "" needed. Put it out of your mind.
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The only thing I really felt was her handjob...
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That's because you've been beating your meat like it owes you money as long as you've known how, with a clenched fist. It's what your used to. Either abstain from whacking it completely until you've got this sorted out, or buy a fleshlight, so you can get used to the softer gentler sensation of a hot pocket verses Righty McFivefingers
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She said we can work on it and I'll eventually get comfortable enough to not worry about everything. But I'm really not sure if that's the problem.
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It is the problem, she is right, and you sound like you picked the BEST POSSIBLE GIRL EVER YOU ARE SO LUCKY I'M NOT EVEN KIDDING to get your V-card punched by. Get comfortable and it will be amazing...mating is the basest primal urge, and the endorphin release is unmatched, except possibly by adrenalin dumps resulting from courting death.
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Could it be that maybe I am too "small" for her? Or maybe she's not as tight I think she is, which doesn't suit my penis?
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No and No. There is realistically no such thing as a vagina too loose to get someone off, and if there was enough friction for her to get off, there was enough for you to get off, too, once you get into the swing of things.
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I'm so scared that I wasted all this time wondering how good sex feels, and finally finding out it's not good... I don't want it to be like this. I want to enjoy sex like everyone else does
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Relax, stop ironfisting your mini-me, and give it a few more tries. I suspect you'll like it once you get past the mental hangups.
Final thoughts: I've observed that guy's initial experiences tend to group either around not coming, or coming waaay to quickly, and then as they get more used to things, they are able to average out to something more mutually enjoyable. For my money, I think you have it easier than the one pumper--I'd rather apologize for not getting mine than apologize that now she can't get hers.
