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Originally Posted by Anonymous Member
...The third time we met, we had PLANNED to have sex at my place, and we did.
...then I STUCK IT IN HER her...and started DOING HER.
...was really really EMBARRASSING because I keep thinking, I'm TOO SMALL
...i'm really AFRAID of not ever enjoying sex
...i'm so SCARED that I wasted all this time wondering how good sex feels
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...i took the liberty to delete most of your post and only highlight the RED FLAGS i saw. Yes, you have "performance anxiety" because it was planned and mechanical filled with fear and embarrassment over a perceived inadequacy (there is nothing wrong with 5.5" at all).
...Guccilvr and Thespian were right about overthinking it all.
...don't plan sex or half the excitement will be lost...at first be playful, tease one another, flirt, and do everything to
arouse each other without actually touching the genitals (be creative). Once you both can't stand that any longer then
proceed with genital foreplay. Orgasm will be heightened by this instead of just "sticking it in and doing her".
