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Originally Posted by Starkizzer
I ask this because when he touches mine I feel nothing, when he does the come hither motion not much more just have to pee. Am I just weird? I'm pretty sure he's playing with the right spot since he says its textured.
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No, not weird at all. The first minute or two of mine being stimulated feels more or less the same. The more pressure he uses, the more you get that peeing feeling. Within a bit of time (and his tongue on my clit!) it starts to feel pleasurable. As I'm building up to an orgasm the pressure he puts on me down there is extremely intense, and I can feel it helping immensely while climbing the big O. I suppose the only way I can describe it is in fact, to call it a "pressure". Starts out as a sensitive one, numbs out a bit within a couple of minutes, and then returns and eventually transcends into an orgasmic one.
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Ally, even if I do pee right before hand, it takes me so long to get to the point of any climax I often have to pee again.  So my confidence that I won't pee is very low. We have even tried where I pee at the start, get to the point of that really strong urge, I take a quick break to go pee again and then let him try again until I can't stand the feeling anymore and make him stop, and I'll go again. I've always had a weak bladder and so I think I just don't like that feeling because I used to get in trouble when I was little for wetting my pants.
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Okay, I see your point, and can understand it. It's more psychological than anything.
But I very much doubt that your SO would care if you were to dribble a bit (and if you'd been to the bathroom previously, and haven't had much to drink, that's surely all there'd be). It's hard to move past psychological issues with this stuff, but if there's anyone you could do it with, it'd be your other half, right? So what if you pee a little... it's just pee. It's harmless, and if you put a towel down, it's easy to clean up.
You're not having a g-spot orgasm because you're tense. Constantly anxious as he's working on you. If you're tense while it's going on, your body won't relax enough to let go and start building up to any kind of pleasurable feeling.
Maybe you could try getting used to the feeling of having your g-spot stimulated by yourself for a bit, first? Keep going until you get to the point where you'd usually make him stop... and then try to push past it. You're by yourself, so it doesn't matter if you do pee. Don't get up and go to the bathroom (but go beforehand), just keep going. Try to relax, watch some porn, fantasize about something, turn yourself on. But most importantly, relax!
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Thanks for all your help ladies, we're not giving up.
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You're most welcome. That's the attitude. But, don't forget to have fun with it in the process. Don't put too much (emotional) pressure on yourselves.