Well I had my first kid at 18 and now I am turning 23 and have 3 daughters. I would not change my life, I love my family. But I wish I would have pursued education or having a career. But I am happy were I am in life. I have a friend who wanted to have kids so bad and found out that she could not conceive a baby. Now she is so depressed she feels like she has lost all purpose in her life. I feel so bad for her, If I could have I would have a baby for her but I cant. I do think its a women thing feeling that they have an obligation to reproduce. Don't feel obligated to have children. Its different for everyone.
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