little_tippler

The bladder lies close to the front vaginal wall, so any stimulation to that part of the vagina can make it seem like you have the urge to pee. I'd say it's only a feeling and not a real urge, especially if you've emptied your bladder. Also, female ejaculation will come through the same path as urine would, so it may just trigger some squirting instead. It's never happened to me but I keep trying!

I would say fingers are better because of knowing what to feel for and just general comfort with the situation at first. But after reading Starkizzer's latest post, I think she may enjoy a vibe, since she says herself that fingers hardly get her off. There are lots of vibrator geared towards the g-spot, but recently one of the best sellers in most sex toy sites is the we-vibe (which we've talked about elsewhere in TFP). Not sure if its hype or actually true, but I'm certainly curious.

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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918