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While a woman may not be able to reach her g-spot from her angle, a guy's fingers should have no problem if he's between her legs. I think fingers are better in a lot of cases because you can feel how much pressure you're using (which means you can lighten it or add more if the situation calls for it), and you can make the "come hither" movement very easily (usually best approach to simulating that little area, but that's what experimentation is for). Make sure something is working her clit, too (vibe, fingers or tongue), or she might find it a bit uncomfortable.

Not to mention that you can feel the texture inside her if you use your fingers, and you're more likely to hit the right spot (most areas inside the vagina are somewhat smooth, the texture covering the g-spot is a bit rougher, which makes it easier to find).

Also, she should empty her bladder before you two get going. This way, no matter how much she feels the need to pee, she can feel relaxed knowing that she won't. For some women, "pushing" slightly when that urge to pee develops (which is the opposite reaction that many women will have) can help bring on a g-spot orgasm. If she's been to the bathroom just before, she'll have peace of mind that no accidents will take place, even if she pushes a bit. If it helps her relax, put a towel down anyway - it won't hurt.

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