While I see the point Jinn and Cromp are trying to make, I just don't agree. I've seen how people, especially people who have been together for many years, treat each other. I think the OP and his spouse are heading down a bad road, and if they don't get their shit together in a hurry, they'll probably end up divorced. He does need to tell her how he feels in a less passive-aggressive way, but at the same time, she sounds lazy and entitled. Some people just need to get bitched out every now and again.
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