Well this situation is hard on both sides.
I went threw a situation, not really the same but close and some days it feels like it has just happened then others it feels like something that was told to me and happened to someone else. But on those days that it feels like just yesterday its hard to be close to my husband. I feel so ashamed sometimes and I feel like my husband is paying for what happened. I wish it was not like this but I cant help it.
So I guess I am probably not great at giving advice on this because I'm not in your shoes, and I'm on the opposite side of this situation. All I have to say is be patient. Listen to her and be there for her.
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